First comes the thought, through the lens of our own perception. This creates hormones that are sent through the body, creating our feelings. When these feelings are not honoured in the moment (or soon after) then they are buried within us, stored and logged. Our belief system is tainted by these feelings and further thoughts from this form and become our limiting beliefs.
This can affect us by not feeling worthy enough, deserving of better or even wanting to change a circumstance that is clearly not making us happy.
Our family environments, when growing up, shape our personal values.
For example, if our parents stayed together for years but they fought a terrible amount- we are Just as likely to repeat the Perceived value of Loyalty(staying together, no matter what the cost!). Or another perceived value May have formed-The perception that marriage, or more specifically, close relationships , should be avoided at all costs.
So that’s two different Perceptions. One is likely to stay in a relationship Long-term, even if It costs them their happiness! A perceived value of loyalty has been identified and so, that individual is more likely to find someone to match that level of familiarity, so history will repeat itself.
The other is likely to never let anyone get close or repeat the turbulent patterns that keep someone from getting close. Neither are ideal!
Awareness is a light bulb moment, acknowledgment goes even further. What would recognise someone’s personal values allow them to see? What would one shift in the belief system do for an individual and their life?
The decisions made and opportunities that arose from them would be worlds apart!
Relationships, career, family, friendships and financial. All big categories of someone’s life. Different decisions can make a big positive impact to your life.
